Is it? Years ago I was able to predict someone on my LJ friend list’s next headmate. I hated that character for years because of it, and he was very mopey. Then 3 or so years ago I fell in love with that character. And because I was part of the “ soulbond world” since the late 90s, a version of him was in the back of my mind. Even if I stoped beliving in actual spirits ( I got rid of him late June last year and I have not been right eversense.but it made no sense to have someone both in and not I. My head at the same time, and it’s just my own mind for all those years, transforming into whatever I’m into .I destroyed a part of myself and I can physically feel the void in my mind.)